January 8, 2018 0 Comments Thoughts and Feelings Working in Alberta

Word about Dating Pickiness

It pays to be picky, but to a point. Some people want too much and that’s why they’re unhappy – they want someone who makes good money yet has all the time in the world, is the ideal height, has the ideal facial characteristics, is the perfect romantic click, wants just as many kids, etc…

On the other hand, you have those who make a career looking to be chased by those with no direction in their lives, have a bad drug and gambling problem, etc… but they’ll be the greatest romantic click (at the time) and have almost all the spare time in the world. Now the problem is that it doesn’t work for obvious reasons. I’m kind of an oddball as I have a dating history of women much ‘below’ me on the social ladder. Attractiveness and where you’re at in life is important but I don’t care how beautiful you are- if you piss me off and have a horrible attitude, I can’t stand being around you for even 5 minutes:

“It pays more to listen, than to be smart and beautiful”.

Whatever makes you happy but somewhere you’ll have to give up something 😀